My Former Boss

One of my former bosses is retiring.  He only had his position for a little more than 8 years.  His retirement shocked some people.  It is unheard of in his field. 

That’s right, I’m talking about Pope Benedict XVI. 

For five years I coached basketball at Traverse City St. Francis High School. I love basketball, I love high school kids and the Athletic Director asked me to coach in the women’s program.  That led to the Varsity Men’s Coach asking me to assist him with the men’s program.  So, I did both.

Not everyone understood.  The pastor of a local Protestant church was coaching at a Catholic High School?  There was muttering and disapproval from both sides of the Christian aisle. We didn’t think we were doing anything groundbreaking.  Nor was that the point.  My daughter attended the high school.  They knew I had a coaching background.  They needed a mature (old) coach for some of their special circumstances and they asked me to do it. 

Two things were clear from the outset.  My primary job as Senior Pastor of our congregation would always take precedence over my basketball duties.  They were a Catholic school and I would not undermine their faith view and practices. 

The groundwork for such an arrangement had been laid in the 1990’s in a movement led by Chuck Colson and Father Richard John Neuhaus who formed Evangelicals and Catholics together.  The movement was supported and endorsed by other evangelicals including theologian J.I. Packer and Bill Bright.  They received a great deal of push back and lots of hate mail.  Colson reported that this venture adversely affected financial contributions to Prison Fellowship.  But they pressed on.

              

Rather than focusing on the differences between the two methods of nurturing the Christian faith, they focused on what they had in common.  In a document entitled, The Gift of Salvation, they affirmed together that “Justification is not earned by any good works or merits of our own; it is entirely God’s gift conferred through the Father’s sheer graciousness.”

It was clear to me while coaching at St. Francis that the local priests were held in high esteem and school policy and practices were always approved by them.  It was clear to me that the priests, administrators, teachers and students at St. Francis held the Pope in high esteem as their religious leader.  They didn’t agree with every papal stance, but they respected his positions.  As an invited guest employee I was expected to do the same.  The school respected that we had different views and practices of our faith.  I encouraged my players in the practice of their faith and answered their questions (and complaints) carefully and respectfully.  Ultimately the Pope was my boss.

              

For some people I was simply a basketball coach.  For them I was evaluated on my coaching ability.  But for many, my coaching was a symbol of unity in the body of Christ.  It was an affirmation of what C. S. Lewis referred to as Mere Christianity.  Whether a practicing Catholic or Protestant we affirm such fundamentals as the Virgin Birth, the deity of Christ, the atonement, the resurrection, the authority of Scripture, and the second coming.

              

1.2 billion people identify as Roman Catholics in the world.  Today they are praying for God’s guidance and direction in choosing a new leader.  I will join in with them as brothers and sisters in Christ.

Angry With Others and Myself

It is the season of Lent, the 40 days immediately preceding Easter. It is patterned after Jesus’ 40 days in the wilderness. Jesus fasted and prayed seeking God’s will and direction. The writers of His biographies record three temptations He faced from Satan during this time. Each temptation was defeated when Jesus quoted scripture. Knowing God’s perspective and claiming as our own always repels temptation.

This year our church is combining Lenten practices with exercise. We are encouraged to walk or exercise in some way for at least 20 minutes of silence reflecting on a scripture or a devotional thought. Monday’s passage for reflection was: “Do not be angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, for you cannot make yourself as you wish to be.” – From The Imitation of Christ

I began my day reflecting on that thought for 20 minutes of my normal morning walk. Then I wrestled with it for the rest of the day and periodically ever since.

I do get frustrated when people don’t see the world the way I see the world. Why can’t everyone interpret scripture the way I do? Why do some people view urban problems differently than me? Why doesn’t everyone like the same things in worship that I like? How can some people major in what I consider to be the minors? How can some people still be racist? Or insensitive to those who live in poverty? Or lack compassion for single parents?

Why can’t my wife be more of a sports fan? Why don’t my kids adopt the same priorities I have in life?

It is frustrating that people cannot be as I want them to be. It is even more frustrating that I cannot be who I want to be. I let myself down daily. I do not meet my expectations. Like the Apostle Paul, I do not do what I want to do and I do what I don’t want to do. I repeat sins that I desperately want to avoid. I cannot make myself as I wish to be, so how can I be angry that I cannot make others as I wish them to be? Tough question.

Can I offer all people I encounter more grace, more understanding, and more acceptance? I pray I can. 

~Rev

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It Has to Stop!

It has to stop!

A declaration? A demand? An exclamation?  More like a plea. 

Please, God, it has to stop!

In a month in which many Christians acknowledge support of the sanctity of life, over 40 people of all ages were killed in Chicago by gun violence.  If we truly value life from “its conception to its natural end” as many say, each and every one of these lives that were lost were should alarm us.  They were all created in the image of God.  God weeps when His image is wiped out.

Some of the deaths get more attention than others.  Two men shot down in front of a hamburger stand is alarming.  A woman gunned down in her car on the ramp from Lake Shore Drive, peaks our curiosity.  The death of 15 year old Hadiyah Pendleton, shot after school while she was seeking shelter under a play structure from the rain, garners national attention and increases our ire.  Her death became national news.  All of these shooting deaths are sad.

Our collective hearts broke when 26 children and adults were murdered in one day at Sandy Hook Elementary School.  Chicago is experiencing Sandy Hook in slow motion…40+ deaths in one month. 

Public debates rage between gun rights and gun restriction advocates.  The argument that guns don’t kill people, people kill people is lost on me.  People are sinful and if they have access to weapons they will use them for evil purposes.  Drugs don’t kill people, people misuse drugs.  Yet, we have laws that limit drugs, even legal drugs, to protect us from ourselves.

From a Christian perspective, this is not an urban problem, or a Chicago problem, or a South Side problem.  This is “our” problem.  We are part of God’s kingdom trying to spread His influence everywhere.  If some part of His kingdom is hurting, we need to figure out how we can increase His influence. 

Putting an end to murders in Chicago is an overwhelming challenge.  Who would know where to begin, or what to do?  But famine, war, poverty and world hunger, are also overwhelming challenges, but we get involved at some level to make a difference.  I can’t solve the murder problem in Chicago, but I can do something.  I’m not sure exactly what that is, but I believe God wants me/us to do something.

              
So, I am going to pray.  I am going to plead to God that He miraculously intervene and put an end to the violence. 

              
I am going to pray, that God will show me what I can do to help in my little sphere of influence, in my corner of the world, with my gifts and talents.

              
I am not going to start a national program, or propose denominational involvement, or encourage our congregation to take on this problem.  I am going to seek God’s leading to use me to make a little bit of difference, to do my part. 

              
These murders are symptoms of a greater problem in our culture.  They are intertwined with poverty, racism, classism, lack of educational opportunities and, in my opinion, one of the greatest missing links in peoples’ lives, the absence of mentors and role models. 

              
I have no idea what might come of this, or what God will do.  This is all I do know:

It has to stop!