Darkness Among Us

Here we find ourselves again.

Who would think that a night out at the premier of a long-awaited film could end so tragically? It is becoming too common of a question in our lifetime.

Who knew that another routine day in 1998 at the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in downtown Oklahoma City could end with 168 dying from a terrorist bomb built and detonated by Americans?

Who knew that another day at Columbine High School could end so tragically where 12 people were killed and many others were injured?

Who knew that a bright, sunny, spring day would include airplanes flying into the twin towers in New York City as took place in 2001?

Who knew that a routine spring day on Virginia Tech’s campus would turn into a nightmare where a student shot and killed 32 from his campus?

Time after time our ordinary, normal, routine days are turned upside down by the horrific actions of others.

Immediately the media began coverage of the story, all trying to beat other outlets to the story. A common question early on was to discover the motivation behind what James Holmes had done. “We are trying to learn more about James Holmes so that we can get a better grasp on the motivation for this shooting,” is the way it was said, or written, in one outlet or another.

Really? Knowing his motivations would do what? Would it put our mind more at ease because we understood why someone would enter a theater after a movie had begun and start killing people? How can we understand his motivations anyway? All we can really do is make guesses, unless James Holmes himself tells us something. My experience tells me that his motivations will not make us feel any better.

Was he motivated by bullying as a child? Or by being an outsider? Or by voices that told him to do this? Or by his fascination with Batman movies? Or by some mental/psychological/emotional disorder? What satisfaction would that bring us? What would it resolve?

Anyone who would do what James Holmes did was not thinking clearly, or rationally. His psyche was in some way disturbed, off kilter.

Our hearts grieve over the senseless loss of life. I was moved by stories of the many who gave their lives to save the lives of loved ones when the incident occurred.

I can’t imagine what it would be like to be the parents of John Holmes. You love your son and raise him in a home where he is nurtured and loved. No parent ever imagines their child might do something like this. They are, no doubt, devastated. How do you continue to love and support your son after he has committed such a horrific crime? I wouldn’t even know where to begin.

These events remind us of the darkness that looms within us as human beings. The first family we meet in the Bible has one son who murders his brother. Cain murdered his brother, Abel, because he was jealous. Following that, the Bible is filled with one story after another of human darkness and evil.

We are capable of some pretty horrific acts.

And God loves us anyway.

So we pray: for the victim’s families, for the healing of survivors, for those who were in the theater and are traumatized by what took place, for the parents of James Holmes, and for James Holmes himself.

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Protestant Priest

I had met her when she was a college student. We had kept in touch sporadically. I knew she had gotten married. I knew she had a successful professional career. I knew she had two children. I knew that she was faithful in following Christ and was raising her children to know Christ as well. I hadn’t seen her for 15 years when she called out of the blue and said she wanted to come and see me.

It wasn’t convenient. It was a significant distance from her home, but she made the trip. When she showed up we spent some time catching one another up on our lives. That lasted for 10 or 15 minutes before I asked, “So, what’s up?”

She didn’t respond right away. She was searching for the right words. She was trying to figure out how to begin. She fidgeted a little. Then she began to tell me about the nature of her work, about the travel requirements, and how one night, and only one night, she had met someone and had a one night stand. Tears flowed down her cheeks, she began to weep uncontrollably. She spoke of her embarrassment, her guilt, her shame and how she had failed her husband, her children, and her Lord. She went on to talk about what a horrible person she was and she didn’t know what to do. But what she really wanted to know from me was God’s perspective.

The interesting and curious part of this conversation was that she had come to me. She had her own pastor. Why had she come to me? Part of it was our history. But part of it was that I was safe. I wasn’t her pastor; she wouldn’t have to look at me every week. I was at a safe distance geographically. She didn’t want ongoing counseling. She just wanted to a place to share her secret and get God’s perspective.

I spoke to her about God’s mercy, grace and forgiveness. She knew all of those things conceptually. She had experienced them at a surface level, but this was huge. Do grace, mercy and forgiveness apply here? Would God forgive her for what she had done?

She wanted to hear me articulate the words, “God forgives you.”

I spoke the words.

She wept again. You could see the heavy burden she was carrying move from her shoulders. She was physically different.

We prayed. We hugged. She left.

I hadn’t said anything she didn’t know. I hadn’t revealed any deep spiritual insight. I acted as a priest; someone to whom she could confess and who, as a representative of God, could bless her with God’s forgiveness.

When this kind of thing happens, I am humbled and moved. It is an awesome and unbelievable thing to bring God’s grace to someone in such a powerful way.

As Protestants, it is not a part of our heritage to have a human mediator for the transaction of guilt, confession and forgiveness. We go straight to the source: God. However, sometimes, as in this case, we need someone who we see as an authority; someone who represents God for us; someone who we see as speaking on God’s behalf, confirm what we know to be true but it just can’t penetrate our heart.

I don’t know a person who doesn’t carry around some kind of guilt of shame.

Hearing the words, “God forgives you”, can change our lives.

Being Moved

I was moved by the scene.

         

Forty plus people strung out across the stage of our worship center ready to be commissioned to be Jesus to an orphanage full of children in Honduras. As I looked at the group it reminded me of Lake Wobegon, where, according to Garrison Keillor, “All the women are strong, all the men are good looking and all the children are above average.”

         

But it wasn’t the Lake Wobegon factor that moved me.

         

I was moved by the fact that 40+ people would sacrifice a week of their summer to work in Honduras with children who had been abandoned by their parents.

         

I was moved knowing that the teenagers who were going had raised money to offset their expenses. They had solicited friends and family as financial supporters. They had auctioned themselves off to people to do “dirty jobs.” They had worked many hours at our annual “huge garage sale.”

         

I was moved by understanding that this trip was an expression of the love of Christ that they have come to know through their families, church and, for some, school.

         

I was moved by the fact that at this young age they want to share Christ’s love with people they do not know.

         

I was moved knowing that the people participating in this trip will come back changed. They will not be the same. They will see things, hear stories, live experiences, and share their lives in ways that will transform them. No one ever comes home from a mission trip without being changed by God in some way.

         

I was moved to be a part of a sending congregation. Our covenant theology is both vertical and horizontal. God has established a covenant relationship with us and has promised to be our partner in whatever life might bring. The body of Christ is in a covenant relationship with one another. No one lives life on their own. We are in this together. We are going with those who are going to Honduras even though we will remain here.

         

I was moved when we acknowledged that this trip was in obedience to God’s command to “...go into all the world and make disciples of all nations....”

         

I was moved that in God’s providence two young adults, who had been a part of the Honduras ministry since they were young, were able to be with us in worship and on the stage representing all the children who have been a part of this ministry past, present and future. They are living examples of God’s amazing power, grace and love!

         

I was moved as I was reminded that our young people, who come from middle and upper middle class American homes, will be “loving on” young children who have been abandoned by parents and families for a variety of reasons that are hard for us to understand. The Honduran children live in poverty and without many of the advantages our children take for granted. God will use our kids to change the lives of others. And our kid’s lives will be changed through these relationships. 

Has God moved you lately?

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Never Have a Power Outage

When I arrived home Sunday after worship I said to Becky, “The sky in the west is really dark. It looks like a storm is coming.” I’m not a weatherman or a prophet, but I do have a firm grasp of the obvious. By the time I had changed clothes and we sat down for lunch, the wind was blowing our furniture on our deck around and it was as dark as night. We went to the basement to watch television to see what they were saying. We were under a “severe storm warning”, but not tornadoes. For the next half hour to forty-five minutes the wind blew hard and the rain poured sideways. Then the sky cleared, the sun shone brightly returning the outside to its sauna-like status.

At the time we had no idea that only a few miles north, things had been much worse. Running east from West Chicago and moving through Wheaton, Glen Ellyn, Lombard, Villa Park and into Elmhurst, the winds had been stronger and had done much more damage. Trees were toppled, limbs fell and power lines were broken, looking as if someone had dropped a huge bowl of black spaghetti into the street and people’s yards. Many were without power for two days or more.

With temperatures flirting with 100 degrees and high humidity, it didn’t take long for homes to become horribly uncomfortable. Air conditioners, refrigerators, freezers, computers, televisions, and phone chargers were all out of commission. For many, 48 hours without those modern conveniences became nearly unbearable.

As I listened to the complaints and the difficulties as placed on Facebook, (you can’t let a lack of electricity keep you from posting your status on Facebook!), I began to think about what it means to live in a global society. National economies are more interconnected. People are doing business all over the world. Every college recommends to their students that they spend at least one semester studying abroad because we are living in an ever shrinking world, and it will be important to know how to adapt to other cultures.

People around the world live every day in conditions we experienced for only a couple of days. People in Haiti deal with heat and humidity year around and many still live in tent cities and in temporary housing because of the devastating earthquake of 2010. They don’t have electricity, cell phones, computers and some struggle for food. Many people in third world countries have a hard time finding drinking water that isn’t polluted. There are places where women carry laundry down to the river to wash it by hand and then carry it home to dry.

We are a bit spoiled in America. We have a hard time living without all of the conveniences that we take for granted. Our culture is built on having power and when we don’t it is disruptive.

It may be good to lose power once in a while, so that we can recall how grateful we are when we have it!

There is something ironic about how disruptive power outages can be. The power of God is available to us 24/7/365 and can never be disrupted. The Holy Spirit is constantly available and will never fail us. The only thing that prevents us from using the power of Holy Spirit is our failure to tap into the Holy Spirit’s availability.

Let the power flow!

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